PASTOR JOHN COLLINS, EVANGELIST, THOUGHT FOR THE DAY: I'M FINE....AVOIDANCE
We tend to brush off people who truly are concerned with how
we "are". We don't talk as family, preferring to stare at
screens in front of our faces. Too many times avoiding issues leads to
hurt and anger. It's time to learn honesty and transparency, beginning
with the ones we love most~Pastor John Collins, John Collins Ministries.
From John Collins Ministries:
“I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.” Galatians 2:20 (NKJV).
‘What’s wrong?’, ‘Nothing.’, ‘How are you?’, ‘I’m
fine.’
How many times have these questions and answers been given
in your life? How many unsaid issues get brushed
aside, pushed down and built up? How many avoidances have
you given or received? Why is it so hard to express what
is going on inside? Our children don’t talk,
we don’t talk, everyone avoids the real
issues and ignores what is really going on. Is it any wonder why
there are so many therapists out there? When did it become necessary to talk to
strangers in order to express the truth?
Why can’t we be
honest with our loved ones? When did they become the enemy,
the judge, the jury and the executioner? Is that how we feel about them, as if they
couldn’t handle the truth of our souls?
Honesty has been buried in a wave of ‘I’m fines.’
Small
issues and hurt feelings become grudges and hate.
This world is turning on itself one person at a time, one family at a time, one
neighborhood at a time, one city at a time, and one country at a time. Everyone is at war.
No one wants to be honest and
no one wants to find a solution and our reality has become a shell game of
existence of hiding one part of our lives from the other. Where is the
transparency of life, the simplicity of truth and the willingness to share all
of who you are with the ones you supposedly love?
Avoidance breeds distrust and distrust breeds suspicion and
suspicion breeds assumptions and the process undermines love and relationships
are lost in the desire to avoid confrontation which leads to an explosion of
emotion and words said that cannot be taken back and actions that follow that
cannot be taken back when honesty and a willingness to listen and really hear
what is being said can resolve so many issues in the first place.
Jesus taught us to listen with our hearts as He does and as
God does. You would be surprised how many times your heart would have you
forgive someone and your mind stirs up hate over and over again, how your heart
would have you take time to help someone in need but your mind spreads fear and
you give that instead, how many times your heart would have you humbled and
apologize but your mind demands that you are right and deserve that apology
instead, that your heart would have you reaching out for help but your mind
isolates you into a world of despair.
Become more Christ-like today and begin to listen to your
heart instead of your mind.
“Finally, brethren, farewell. Become complete. Be of good comfort, be of one mind, live in peace; and the God of love and peace will be with you.” 2 Corinthians 13:11 (NKJV).
LOVE THAT CROSS, PASTOR JOHN COLLINS
Pastor John Collins and John Collins Ministries are
determined to change the face of Christianity and redeem the truth of the
Gospel and the word of God.
You can hear Pastor John Collins broadcast on AM and FM
stations across the USA. John Collins Ministries has a Youtube
channel that posts regular podcasts of Pastor Collins. John Collins
Ministries has a channel on Blogtalk radio. This country needs to
hear the truth of God and Jesus. This world needs to hear and understand what
the rules are in order to get to heaven. They aren’t preached and
they aren’t taught, and it’s time for people to hear to hear that truth. Pastor
John Collins and John Collins Ministries is bringing that message with passion
and fervor. Take the time to listen. If you want to reach
Pastor John Collins, contact him for preaching, prayer, revival, guest speaking
at jcollinsministries@gmail.com. We need to get it right.